My fiance is not financially stable

As usual, I am inspired to write and share my own thoughts by the email notification I got from Tolu Toluhi’s most recent vlog. What do you do when your fianc√© is not financially ready or stable to settle down in marriage even though you both love each other? I will like to clear one …

My Man is Too Laid Back. Should I Still Marry Him?

This morning, I got an email from TomiTalks on laid back fiances. I personally call these men passive people. I didn’t waste time clicking and watching her video. By the way, if you didn’t know, TomiTalks is a Christian relationship vlog on YouTube. Here’s the question:¬†What do you do when the one you love does …

Epistles to Colleen #6: You were not born for Marriage

We can’t say we’ve begun to grow if we don’t find the origin of our mindset; the platform that birthed our strongholds. The stronghold that was sold to you that you were created for marriage. And so from birth, the Nigerian System begins preparing you for marriage. Your aspiration for marriage didn’t begin when you …