Private vs. Public Marriage Proposal. Which do You Prefer?

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Roses in love shape for proposal
Photo via @weddingdresslookbook

Marriage proposals these days are becoming events people long to experience. It doesn’t matter if you are not the bride-to-be sef. My people, we love feferity shaaaaaaaaa. Wasn’t it our parents the groom would approach many years back? It was so simple back then. Don’t you wish we were back in those days? Kidding! Heck no!

Well well well… There are many cases of bride-to-be go way emotional during marriage proposals. I like the ones that do so in a cute way,  I don’t freaking care if it’s all staged, just make it cute. Buahahahahahahahaaaa. But you see ehn, I once saw the video of a woman who fainted. Jeez! And it was public. I so wished deep down that it was a private sontin. We would faint ourselves to death and dust off the embarrassment lol. One other girl kept running around without accepting the ring. And that was even a private proposal. Chai.

So,  my question is this? Would you prefer a private or public marriage proposal? Why? Join the conversation in the comments section.

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(30) Comments

  1. I prefer public proposal. I know many have been messed up but I very well like the glamour that comes with it. I would not mind to be on Bella Naija o. It's just once in a lifetime, so why not?

    1. Wow. I wasn't expecting. Hihihihihihihihi. I hope he goes public. Or has he done that yet? #winks

  2. I would love a private proposal, but i'm sure she would want the whole world to hear it… how private can it get then? lol

    1. Buahahahahahahahaaaa, dear Ugo. I have missed you o. Long time. Welcome back to the blogosphere too. Where did you go sef?

      So, how we go merge public and private now eh?

  3. I'd prefer private.

    1. Noted. We will go private, don't worry

  4. I will go with private a million times. I can make it public if she so desires(I will definitely know her preference without asking)

    1. Hmmmmmm, yeah right. I know you can always know what your lady would find thrilling.

  5. Anonymous says:

    I want private proposal. Adon laik drama for anything.

  6. Priiiiiiiiiiiiiivate. I just like the two of us being romantic. No prying eyes.

    1. Me and my husband somebody!

  7. Anonymous says:

    Public o. Let's get the whole world see me propose to my baby. Even Bella Naija go carry.

    1. Azzzzzziiiiiiiiiinnnnnn…. Shey we should alert Bella Naija already?

  8. I will prefer private .. But it all depends on what the woman would want sha….

    1. Hmmmmmmmmmnnnnnn..

  9. AwesomeHumphrey says:

    Hmm. This proposal thing when the man needs to get down on one knee, where did it all start from sef? I nor know whether I go propose sef. Maybe I go just tell her, "Babe I wan marry, I like you, make we marry". But if I eventually go with the tide, it's because I want her to have gist to tell her friends, and it's going to be private.

    1. Such an unromantic Humphrey. I don give up on you tey teeeeeeey. How far with that package o, no just fall my hand.

      1. AwesomeHumphrey says:

        Lol. Please don't give up just yet o. As for that package ehn, I go try my best.

  10. Somewhere in between private and public, just a couple of CLOSE friends.

    1. I like this type too…

  11. Omoyele says:

    Dear Future Husband,
    It's our marriage. So it should be our proposal. Just us. I am indifferent to public tho. But why the stress? We'll even be more real and true to us when it's just us. We'll read all the emotions and there won't be any fakeness masked.
    Thank you

    1. Eh God! This is a letter.

  12. Private o, abeg.. It's very romantic for me that way. Me I don't like all the unnecessary attention people draw on themselves o.

  13. Oh right uhn? Hmmmm. 'private' we give you then. Hihihihihihihihi….

  14. Anonymous says:

    Since the whole world knows we are dating. They should know when he proposes too. Lol.

    So yes. Public. I want to have the shock of my life.

    1. O my my my. I pray that shock will be epic.

  15. Blessing says:

    Lol … I'll love it not really public… Just a few close friends, classy, romantic and definitely a surprise������. I love surprises.

    1. Yes ma'am. Heheheheh…

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