do not become desperate

Hi, do not become desperate!

In my tiny world of business, whenever someone approaches me for a service, I let them know how much my prices are if they haven’t checked already. In the most polite of manners, I turn down and refuse to cut down from my standard charges because I always, ALWAYS, put out what I want to …

why he is not texting you back

Why he is not texting you back

I am not sure I want to start to dilute Jamie Grace’s view and opinion of why the guy you have got the chills for isn’t texting you back. I quite know how frustrating it is to like a guy and have him not like you back. Or why isn’t he initiating a conversation? At …

Why Are Africans Obsessed With Marriage

Why Are Africans Obsessed With Marriage?

Dimma Umeh’s rant on YouTube was so legit necessary and this wasn’t undermining marriage as an institution, no. I also think that the reason why single people are not free to air their frustrations around marital pressure is that they are still single. It’s even worse if you are “overdue” single, you know what I …

There’s an Independent Man for Every Independent Woman

“Even with all of her ‘independent woman’, see, she still got married”. I have shuddered at some of the statements seemingly smart folks utter and it breaks my heart to know that all of the education they had did very little to influence their thought processes. An independent woman isn’t the tough, rude, street woman …

My fiance is not financially stable

As usual, I am inspired to write and share my own thoughts by the email notification I got from Tolu Toluhi’s most recent vlog. What do you do when your fiancĂ© is not financially ready or stable to settle down in marriage even though you both love each other? I will like to clear one …